If you’re the kind of guy who dated a few girls during college, maybe you had a few short-term relationships but no successful long-term relationship, and you notice many of your friends are in extended relationships, you may be wondering: “Why can’t I have such a relationship?” There are several common reasons why some guys, although actively dating, never had a successful long-term relationship in college, and I’d like to show you those reasons. However, some of us stray from the typical college student archetype.How to be more mysterious If you want to come across as a mystery yourself, but also want to make sure you don’t scare off your potential partner without appearing distant, try these tips below. If you want to be mysterious to the person you’re talking to, a very easy way to do so is to not respond to every text and/or call right away.
Along with not responding right away, if your guy or girl asks you to hang out or do something, don’t always say yes. If you don’t feel like doing something, then don’t do it. Besides, when you two finally hang out, you’ll probably enjoy it even more because you’re not always together.We always want what we can’t have, and when we find someone to be mysterious, it means they are alluring, and we can’t figure them out.And that’s exactly why we keep wanting more – so that we can understand them.When you have that air of mystery, you leave potential partners scrambling for clues to find out more about you.And we all have an inner Nancy Drew inside of us somewhere. They leave people puzzled and confused, but ultimately also attracted to what they can’t figure out.
Thus, they may become a lot more sensitive or stop seeking challenges.